Arkansas Trucking Association, Inc. Governmental Affairs issued the following announcement on Feb. 19.
As I think of all the friendships that I have nurtured over the years and how precious those are to my life, career and place in our community, it is evident that the pandemic took its toll on personal connection. Some may have mastered connecting through a screen, but I was not one of them. Behind a mask, from six feet away, it has been hard to navigate first impressions and introductions. Whether you are starved for connection or most comfortable by yourself, meeting new people or strengthening previous connections feels more challenging these days.
Making friends in school was easy. You are served the same lunch, walk the same halls, endure the same homework assignments and midterms for 8 hours every day with the same group of peers. The proximity and shared circumstances amount to an understanding that develops into a relationship. It’s almost out of your control how close you grow to the people around you.
Shared experiences are an incubator for fast friendships.
The end of a year is also a time to be a little wistful, to yearn for something lost to the past. One of my first friends in this industry was former Arkansas Highway Police Chief Jay Thompson. Early in both of our careers, we spent days at a time together, trekking across the state to host training events and sweat through trucking championships. We had fun, got into some trouble, shared successes and learned from one another.
AHP recently announced his retirement, and his presence in the industry will be missed. He understood the hardships of trucking and was a great ally in keeping the roads in Arkansas safe for all drivers. We launched our careers together and had overlapping goals, though we were stewarding different cohorts of professionals.
I have other peers who are retiring or moving on to other places, new goals. Our network of colleagues is always shifting around us. In the same way, we weren’t in control of who sat next to us in Algebra, we only have so much control over our community.
You can’t leave it all to chance and shared space though. In 2022, I am committing to be more intentional in strengthening the relationships I have and creating new ones along the way. Shared experiences are harder to create, while there is such space between us, but they are essential to forming bonds that make work and life easier.
What I wish for myself and you in 2022 is that we prioritize relating to one another, that we keep re-imagining what connection looks like with less physical proximity, and that we no longer put our lives or our relationships on hold until the pandemic is over.
Original source can be found here.
Source: Arkansas Trucking Association, Inc. Governmental Affairs
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